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Traveling Around
Read more: Traveling AroundThe book and I are on vacation this week, wandering through the Appalachian mountains again. I took along a few copies to drop off in various places. If you see my book in the wild, it may be that I left it in a coffee shop somewhere! It feels good to have some time off…
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The Freedom of Waiting
Read more: The Freedom of WaitingWe are paused in the doorway again, the tall nervous horse and I. I’ve pulled him through this opening before. Not this time. He widens his eyes and holds his breath, waiting for something to happen, since things always seem to happen in doorways. Instead, we wait. It’s seen as a sign of weakness, me…
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Story Snippets: Flora
Read more: Story Snippets: FloraI barely mentioned Flora, the oldest mare at the rescue, in my memoir. Though I didn’t work with her often, Flora was a wonderful dark bay with a generally pleasant personality, aside from a few quirks. She had a terrible fear of clippers, whips, and fly masks, and grumpyness about picking her feet up. She…
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Ponderings
Read more: PonderingsThings have been really chaotic on all fronts this week, so this blog post may be a bit scattered. Things at work made me realize over again that not everyone is going to like me. Sometimes it’s not for any good reason. Just as I can clash with someone else’s personality, so they can clash…
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Old Paths
Read more: Old PathsYesterday I was caught off guard by something I thought I had already worked through. It wasn’t a big thing, I just got unusually angry about a situation that shouldn’t have been a big deal. I had to go back and reevaluate why I was so stressed about it. The anger and fear had snuck…
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Celebrating 100 Books!
Read more: Celebrating 100 Books!Well, we made it, and only a few days into the month of May! Standing in a Field With Horses has reached a hundred sales! That’s a hundred more people who have read a story about learning relate to horses without dominance. A hundred more joining a beginner in tentatively feeling out some way to…
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Nearing a Goal
Read more: Nearing a GoalExciting news for the book this month: sometime in May we will hit 100 sales of Standing in a Field With Horses! It’s amazing to me that this independently published book with no initial audience now has almost a hundred readers. Thank you to everyone who has read it, shared it, and reviewed it on…
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Bits and Pieces
Read more: Bits and PiecesI read a book the other day that was recommended to me by a horse group that I follow. It wasn’t something I would have picked up without a recommendation, but I was curious. The book had some things in it I didn’t agree with, but I also found things I hadn’t thought of in…
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“He’s Disrespecting You”
Read more: “He’s Disrespecting You”I would like to return these phrases, I don’t want them anymore: Get after himShow her who’s bossDon’t let her get away with itHe’s testing youGive him a little ‘encouragement’Give her a tap/kickBe the leaderDon’t let him dominate youAsk, tell, demandMake her workHe’s trying to pull one over on youShe’s faking it to get out…
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Excerpt from the Chapter Rex: Cleverness
Read more: Excerpt from the Chapter Rex: ClevernessIt’s springtime, which means my little mini horse buddy, Rex, is suffering from spring allergies again. Until I started volunteering at the horse rescue I had no idea that horses could have allergies, but they can! Here’s how we found out that Rex suffered from them: “One day in spring, a high-pressure front was moving…